Sunday, August 10, 2025

Shaking A Few Things Loose

This week I feel a Big Purge coming on. As I was packing to go to the lake for the weekend, I noticed that there were several things in my closet that I hadn't worn all summer; in fact, I couldn't remember the last time I had worn them. Clearly, it's time for them to go. That made me think about the rolled-up rug in the office closet and the shoes in there that haven't been worn lately either. Time to box and bag things up and call my favourite charity, Vietnam Vets of America, and get them out here for a pickup. (As usual, I'll try to inspire Rick to--cue dread and doom music--go through his things as well, but I don't expect that to amount to anything.)

I'm also feeling the need to Purge a few Thought Nerfuls and Cerebral Clutterbits taking up space in my head, so I'm going to give it a rattle and see what shakes loose.

BOOBS.  As in, mine are because I am Rebelling and refusing to wear a bra for the rest of the summer as of about two weeks ago. Now, to be fair, I am not Copiously Endowed, and because I am an Older Lady, mine are not, shall we say, prone to Being Bouncy. I have spent too much money on trying to find a bra that is even remotely comfortable, and yes, I was even professionally fitted. If I am wearing something sheer, I wear a cami; if I am not, then Shirt Only it is. Chances are extremely good that I continue this for all three remaining seasons and for the rest of my life, especially since I Just Don't Care. 

BOOKS.  I finished--with some disappointment--Parallel Lines by Edward St. Aubyn. Listen, the writing is excellent. I remain entranced and entertained by the character Sebastian, who features in the opening chapter and made me want to read this book. BUT. There were too many characters cluttering up the landscape and they weren't all different enough to make me notice. As a matter of fact, at one point I just sort of skipped lots paragraphs concerning a couple of characters AND IT MADE ZERO DIFFERENCE TO THE PLOT. And the ending made me irritated in that I put up with SO MUCH just to get to...this? Maybe your reading will be vastly different and I truly hope so. Maybe I am just a Huge Pain In The Ass about modern fiction.

However.

I am now reading Orbital by Samantha Harvey. First of all, thank you Julie for reviewing this book over at your place and for providing an excerpt. This book. This book is so achingly beautiful that when I read it, there are times that I simply have to put it down and breathe and recover myself. This morning I took it out on the patio with my coffee; the sound of my little pond waterfall was in the background, and now and then a bird would sing. As I read I would almost be overcome. What an incredible piece of literature. I feel privileged to read it.

PLANTS.  My basil is a green machine. I've made so, so many jars of pesto--in total a little over two quarts so far. I put it in little jars so that it stays fresher longer. Somebunny has gotten into my parsley despite my menacing fake owl and mowed down almost an entire plant. One suspect lounges quite nonchalantly under my swing in the evenings. My catnip got a severe case of powdery mildew, so I cut it all back and took it outside. Neither Piper nor Marlowe care/d a whit about catnip in their old age (I found out), so I was basically growing catnip to give away to the grandcats (Baker and George) anyway. (Side Note:  Jared and Jordan often threaten George that "Nana will come and speak sternly to you" when he misbehaves because they heard me threaten him with that ONE TIME.)

PLEASURES.  It's important to make note of Small Things That Make Us Happy, and here are mine in no particular order:  

1. Coffee
2. The family group chat
3. My porch and patio
4. My little pond and waterfall
5. Blackberries
6. The icemaker
7. Seeing Theo's crib in the office
8. Watching the two little boys across the street and remembering when Jared and Sam were that age
9. My volunteer tomato plant 
10. Piper snoring

I absolutely cannot wait to read what you have to say in Comments about Boobs, Books, Plants, or your life's little Pleasures.

2 comments:

  1. Oooh a closet purge! So satisfying. I have a big bag I need to get to the donation centre soon.
    Okay, boobs. I wear a bra - or a tank with a shelf bra - all the time, EVEN TO BED. I am not a busty woman but I hate the feeling of being unsupported. It's really uncomfortable for me, so I have soft sleep bras and nice-fitting Knix bras. However! I support (heh) your decision to (figuratively) burn those bras!
    Books - I loved Orbital! I just finished a book that was NOT for me, Rubyfruit Jungle. I should have DNFed it. I need to get better about DNFing books I'm not enjoying. Oh well, it was short and didn't take long to read.
    Plants! My garden is insane right now and I just finished roasting tomatoes for freezing, and I'm just about to grate zucchini to freeze.
    Life's little pleasures - I went to Joseph and the Amazing Technicolour Dreamcoat on Friday with the girls, and before that we went for dinner and I had a lovely Aperol spritz!

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  2. I am SO WITH YOU on the boob situation - oh my goodness. As you know, I've lost some weight in the last year (63 pounds!) and I have been struggling to get a bra that's comfy and actually fits. I've tried this one (apparently I'm too short? my boobs were kissing my navel in this one). And I've tried my beloved Victoria's Secret with no success. Oof. I'm a little too endowed to go braless at work. Dang it.

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