So! November. I put a lot of miles on my walking shoes last month. It's amazing how therapeutic it is. Walking was my way to cope with The Results. I'm not going any farther than that--no need to bring everyone back to that mindset. Let's just say that it's way worse than I felt after Gore, Kerry, and Hillary combined, and as a political activist of many years, I'm cocooning now. Please don't judge. (But do read this; it's enlightening.)
Back to Walking: I used to walk in silence, appreciating the ambient noises of my neighbourhood. For some reason, however, I began to get bored and frustrated. I didn't feel energized. I began using my earbuds and chose music for my sojourns, varying my playlists among the music I grew up with and loved in my earlier life. Now I feel so much more spry, briskly striding to The Beatles, Genesis (whose catalog is excellent for walking), and an eclectic mix of artists from Aretha Franklin to Bruce Springsteen. I still carry dog biscuits in my pocket, just in case, and even in this cold weather, I'm out there (thank you, Rick, for my heated coat).
Good News: Sam and Emily vacationed in Hawaii and got engaged. Emily has been part of our family for years already, so we couldn't be happier. Theo had his first birthday. He celebrated with Jared and Jordan in Pittsburgh, where he visited the Children's Museum. On Thanksgiving Day, J&J hosted. Some of her family came into town from out West, so we all got to celebrate Theo's birthday together as well as have a terrific feast. Jared made his first turkey ever (he brined it), and it was tremendous. So much to be Thankful for!
More Good News: Rick semi-retired in November, going part-time, but at his full salary. His boss is so kind and generous. As of January 1st, he will officially be retired. Rick has been working since the age of 15 and mostly in construction, so I'm very happy for him. The boys are, too. Sam's first reaction was, "Dad. Mom lives a very quiet life. And she really likes it. Just saying." That boy knows his mother! And it is true that it'll be a big transition for Rick and me both--it already has been. His part-time schedule is Mondays and Fridays off, so we are already navigating what shared space and shared time* look like. (Sam has also lamented that he will be the only one in the family who has to get up and go to work, a singularity that he feels keenly.) *I will always walk and go grocery shopping alone.
Random Splotches: Here's where I use up what could be short blogpost topics, mainly because I might forget them later.
*I think Heaven & Earth Grocery Store is going to be a DNF for me. I find myself annoyed and disconnected when I read it. I'm over you, James McBride, once and for all. Nothing personal.
*There's a new Beatles doc out, but it's on Disney+. I don't have that. I guess I'm going to have to pay 10 bucks for a month just to watch that one thing. There's no free or cheap trial because I already have Hulu. I'm going to have to swallow my disdain for Disney and pay it. Sigh. (But I still love Winnie the Pooh. Oh bother.)
*Speaking of Hulu--if any of you have watched the last season of Only Murders in the Building, were you as disappointed in it/its quality as I was? I thought it was terrible and jumped the proverbial shark.
*I'm having a terrible, TERRIBLE time finding Diamond Crystal Kosher Salt. As in, nowhere around me carries it and I had to order it off Amazon. The box I got was clearly marked "Not packaged for retail. For Food Service Use." I feel like a criminal.
*Finally, another Dog Show has come and gone, and still the Nova Scotia Duck Tolling Retriever has not made it into the final round, let alone won Best In Show. The fix is in, and why Canadians aren't doing something about it is beyond me.
Thanks to those of you who kept writing in November. I appreciate you.
Oh I feel you on the mixed feelings about Rick's retirement! Luckily for me, The Husband is only semi-retired (working three hours on three days a week) so I get a little bit of quiet (not as much as I'd like though). Congratulations on the engagement, it is always GREAT news when you add on to the family.
ReplyDelete1. COCOONING: Me, too. I have shut down the mainstream news to practically nothing. Too many post-mortems on The Results. Which brings me to…
ReplyDelete2. WALKING: I can imagine that your walks are more therapeutic with music; it does so much to raise our spirits. If I walked alone, I would definitely create a playlist of my favourites. Mr. O. and I go to one of the two nearby parks for a 30-minute walk every day. It really does help: fresh air and free healthy exercise. Our convos are usually fairly mundane. Sometimes we reminisce about the past and usually conclude that we didn’t do such a bad job. Interestingly, there are sometimes a few little nuggets from our lives before we met (we were both in our late-40s) that neither one of us knew about: short-term memory affects us both these days, but long-term memory is sharper than ever. Maybe also because we now both have so much time together, lol. Which brings me to…
3. RICK’S RETIREMENT: Great news! Rick’s boss is indeed very kind and generous. I am sure Rick has more than earned it over the years, but it is gratifying to hear that his boss is rewarding him for that. I had to laugh at “navigating shared space and shared time.” We are living the same situation in reverse since Luis retired a couple of years before I did. It has been a journey in the last six months for me to adapt to being home every day. The first couple of months were spent finalizing all the paperwork, setting us up in our Social Security + health care plans, etc., and now we’re balancing out the shared space and time. It’s a new journey for sure. Which brings me to…
RANDOM SPLOTCHES:
—FAMILY: Lovely also to hear the great news about Sam & Emily and your Thanksgiving with J&J + baby Theo, of course!
—TV: We subscribe to Spectrum’s internet/TV plan with DVR recording which includes all the international Spanish channels. A must in our house, and it's great to watch our favourite programs any time it's convenient and zip through all the ads. For extra stuff: right now, it’s what’s available on Amazon Prime + Netflix. I have been tossing up for a while about subscribing to Hulu; the version with ads is the cheapest, of course. I am mostly curious because a lot of the movies I want to see are only on Hulu.
—THE WEATHER: One of the few things I follow on the news lately is climate change and its effect on the weather. I have been reading about the “Lake Effect Snow” in your neck of the woods. You must be buried under mounds of snow right now!!! I suppose you’re used to this happening, but it looks pretty extreme. Hope you’re well-stocked on supplies…
—WRITING: I am working on Chapter 3. Was thinking of sending you Chapter 2 which I finished in October, but only if you’re bored and need a little mindless distraction, lol.
XXOO
I love the upbeat tone to this post. I'm not there yet in these post election days but I'm making progress and have set the end of my mourning period to coincide with New Years Eve.
ReplyDeleteWorking out retirement schedules and conflicts of expectations is a good kind of problem to have. Congratulations to your husband.
This is a great post full of good news and the part about being a criminal for the salt you ordered on Amazon made me chuckle. Happy bday to baby Theo and so exciting to have another wedding happening. Congrats to Rick on his retirement. Maybe the boss let him start out part time retired in hopes that he changes his mind and decides not to retire. ;) I'm glad you've been enjoying your walks. I think I get 3 mos of Apple tv since I bought an apple phone. I'm waiting for the college kids to be home so we have another place to scroll for stuff, discover there's nothing we can agree on, have someone cave and agree to watch whatever, and then minutes into the selection I fall asleep on the coach. It'll be awesome.
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