Tuesday, July 15, 2025

The July Report: Strap In And Let's Do This

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 July has been all over the place so far. This post will probably reflect that. Hang on tight because I have no real idea what this may turn into. Let's go.

1. Cervical Facet Arthropathy/Syndrome and Cervical Epidural Steroid Injection:  This all has nothing to do with lady parts; rather, it's all about a pain in the neck. It seems that my most recent falls have exacerbated the arthritis in my neck and exposed a nerve. I've been in pain and physically limited for months and months, and it finally got bad enough that I was referred to a pain specialist. Long story short, we tried medicine, and on Monday a cortisone shot into my neck/spine. If that doesn't hold, next is a nerve ablation. After that, it's surgery to insert pins/rods. I'm Trying Very Hard to avoid that last thing, which is huge and scary and, to me, the very last resort. So far, I'm really pleased with the injection. Fingers crossed that it gives me relief for a long time.

2. Herb Garden Stuff:  I've already made a batch of pesto from my basil and parsley and dried some oregano. My oregano is from a plant I put in more than 10 years ago. I've had to seed dill twice now because of this horrendous heat. I have a volunteer tomato plant somehow in there (I haven't planted tomatoes there for decades), and my jalapenos from last year seeded themselves smack dab in the middle of my rosemary. Today I pulled 14 jalapeno plants and put them in huge pots along the drive. I'll be making pesto again this week, provoking much joy from Jared and Sam.

3. Social Commentary Or Just Laziness? You Decide:  Sometimes on my walk I am confronted with sights that cause me to ruminate for a block or two. As a former English/Literature/Creative Writing teacher and student, I cannot help but see Deeper Meanings in most things. Plus, it's a nice break from reacting with Just Plain Annoyance. Consider these two related things that caught my eye today:


Is this a commentary on the way Organized Sports have a chokehold on our kids, forcing them into a world of pressure and competition far too early? Is it trying to tell us that kids should be spending more time outdoors in free play, discovering the wonders of Nature? Is it saying that too much money is spent on professional sports--salaries, arenas, merchandise, and the like--perhaps to the detriment of our natural environment? That we've lost our way as to what's Truly Important? I like to give my neighbours lofty, artsy, and highfalutin intentions rather than admit they're just indifferent about their yards. It allows me to maintain my Zen whilst I walk.

4. Weekends At The Lake:  Theo was ill over Independence Day with new teeth and a virus, so he couldn't join us, but Sam and Emily (aka Samily) and Zydrunas came for the day. We boated and lunched and hung out. Later that night, Rick and I watched three different fireworks displays from our front yard. We had a makeup weekend last weekend with everyone (minus Emily, who had to work, unfortunately), and it was wonderful. Theo is obsessed with Sam, who he calls Guncle. He drove the boat, talked a lot, danced, and got in the water. He had the time of his life, and we all marveled at how much having him around is like having Zydrunas around. Eerily similar, especially on the boat.

5. Books, Etc.:  I've read two books by Jay Winik about the Civil War. I know I've mentioned them in other Comment sections, so I won't talk about them here except to say that they are excellent and captivating. The writing is engaging and excellent. I grew up vacationing in Gettysburg, and I have a bit of an obsession with this period of history as well as President and Mary Lincoln, reading deeply in these areas. Sadly, I just lost my favourite aunt who lived in Gettysburg and who was a very gracious hostess to our family and to me separately. She was also an English teacher, as was her husband. I will miss her much.

I'm now reading--as a palate cleanser--Parallel Lines by Edward St. Aubyn. It is witty, British, acerbic, and smart. Say what you will about Evil Amazon (and there is plenty to), but they let me read the first chapter of books, and this one had me smiling in admiration, recognition (of how one thought leads to another and another), and amusement. I'm only about 45 pages in, and I absolutely love it. I can't wait to read more by this man. If I were sweeter, I'd type out some passages, but honestly, it's time to prep dinner, and I want to get this published. Go read the first few pages. It's so so good.

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I think this catches us up. I'd like to say that I'll be better at posting more often, but I think we all know how that will turn out. Thank you to those who do post regularly. I wish I knew your secret. Certainly I have time! Perhaps I'll just say I'll Try.

15 comments:

  1. I have no liking for basketball hoops in driveways but that one in the second photo with a plant covering it half up is great.

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  2. I have so many thoughts. First of all, I hope you can avoid surgery. That sounds awful. Steroid injections can be so hopeful. I hope you can stop there and not need further treatments! I definitely thought it was going to be a lady part thing based on the title. It reminded me of when I had surgery to repair my labrum in my hip and my coworker mistakenly told her husband I was having surgery to repair a tear in my labia… he told her surely she misunderstood what I was having done. But we had a good laugh about it when she told me!

    Gah, organized sports. People keep telling me that we will someday have kids on a traveling sports team and I just cannot see it happening. It is such a time commitment and with 2 working parents with kind of inflexible hours, I don’t see how we would get the kids where they need to be. I am terribly unathletic so I assume the boys are more likely to be drawn to speech, band, piano, choir, etc. And those are far less intense pursuits in terms of shuttling kids around.

    I should tell my dad about the civil war books you’ve read. That is a period of history he’s very interested in. I’m currently reading a middle grade novel called ‘The Labors of Hercules Beal’. I like to read middle grade so I know what books to suggest to my kids as they get older. And they are an excellent pallet cleanser, too. This one has some Greek mythology which I am enjoying. The main character is named Hercules and his brother is Achilles. It’s pretty cute but has some great depth to it.

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  3. Oh goodness, I too hope that the injection provides lasting relief so you can avoid surgery!

    Ha. I love your take on the overgrown sports equipment. Nature will triumph over all of these human constructs.

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    1. Suzanne--Thank you for your kind comment regarding my health concern. I appreciate it so much. I'd do just about anything to avoid surgery. One of my phobias is hospital infections.

      Aren't those photos provocative? I like your succinct summation. Nature has a way of rewilding, and in a short time, too.

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  4. I've been wondering if I should explore having a steroid shot in my shoulder. I usually just leap ahead (in my brain) to surgery, but I'm sure my insurance will want me to try the shot first anyway. I'm dragging my feet on making any decision because as long as I don't use that arm I'm fine! (Reader, she is not fine - it's her right arm and she uses it for almost everything.)

    I'm sorry for the loss of your aunt. The area around Gettysburg is so lovely (or was the last time I was there 25 or so years ago).

    Now I'm off to check out your book recommendation!

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    1. Bug--Thank you for your kind words of sympathy about my aunt. The Gettysburg area has only become more lovely, thanks to concerned citizens and boards, and a commitment to preserving as much authenticity and pristine land as possible. Go back soon; you'll be very glad you did.

      Please do take care of yourself and see a doctor about your shoulder. Waiting rarely makes anything better. I waited far too long, and for what? To have pain make me miserable and diminished. Don't make my mistake.

      Zip down to Busy Bee Suz's comment and watch the YouTube clip she included. The author himself talks about his book. Well worth watching!

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  5. Great to see you here whenever you get to it. My *trick* to blogging somewhat regularly is to state when I'll be here, right now it is every other Tuesday. Once I say I'm going to do something I do it. That's how I'm programmed.

    As for your observation about the meaning of the odd basketball hoop/vine dealio, I like it: "Organized Sports have a chokehold on our kids." It seems to explain it as well as can be expected.

    I had steroid shots in my lower back at one point. They worked like magic for a few months, then back to square one. Great while they lasted but insurance said no more so that was that.

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    1. Ally--I wish I had that writing discipline. I am more of an Inspiration Writer. Maybe I should make an appointment with myself at least and see what happens.

      I'm concerned about the longevity of the steroid injection, too. Not sure how many they'll pay for until the ablation, but right now, I'm loving this respite from the constant pain and trying not to look too far ahead.

      I've always had a bit of bias against organized sports for kids. They SAY it's all about having fun, but let's be real: kids who aren't good don't have a lot of fun and feel lousy, and the kids who are really good feel pressure from everyone. It's a LOT.

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  6. I'm so very sorry that your neck pain has gotten to this point. Praying that the injection does its thing and you don't have to do anything further.

    I can almost smell your herb garden! Yay for volunteer plants coming out of the blue.
    Theo at the lake. *Sigh* This must be the most wondrous time for all of you---I can only imagine the simple joys of watching him grow, learn, and just be. I'm so looking forward to all those things.

    The Coach and I often lament over people not caring for their property. I mean, we don't all have to have pristine yards, but simply cleaning up garbage/junk, well that doesn't cost anything and just about anyone can accomplish this, or ask for help in doing so.

    I just looked up the current read of yours, as I'd not heard of it, nor the author. Did you see this interview on Jimmy Fallon? Do you know who the author dedicated that book to? https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DVWSBNnqG2s
    I'm intrigued by the book and will add it to my list of books to read. Thank you!

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    1. BB Suz--Oh, thank you for that YouTube clip! I thoroughly enjoyed it! And now I know about Benedict Cumberbatch acting in a series based upon his books. Love Cumberbatch, too. That clip brought me many treasures; thank you so much. It's a tremendous book; ESB's writing makes me jealous and satisfied at the same time. A gift.

      Suz, I cannot tell you how joyous and huge having a grandchild is. It also reframes your own child in your eyes in a glowing, warming way. I never expected to feel so ... overcome. And intertwined, if that makes any sense at all.

      Thank you for your very kind words about my neck problem. I hope it all stops here, too, and that the most I have to do is get another steroid injection far down the line.

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  7. My neighbor's yard is a real shit show. I've never been in their house, but by the state of their yard I suspect they are hoarders. Now to my very OCD-like/tidy brain, this caused much consternation when we moved in. We met them when their house caught fire. Their parrot came to stay with me for a few hours. Turns out they are lovely people with four lovely girls AND a house full of pets. I focus on how nice they are rather than the water bottles that roll down the driveway with every storm. (Also ..... thank goodness for wood fences that block most of that view.)

    Hope your injection works well.

    I totally get it about trying to post regularly. I, too, have the time. It just doesn't happen sometimes.

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    1. Dee--Oh, how nice to see you here in Comments! I've missed you.

      I find that I can ignore a great deal if people are kind, genuine, and just plain nice. Like you, I am tidy, organized, and crave neatness. I know I'm a control freak. But as I've aged, I've found it easier to note things, take a deep breath, and move on with the understanding that Hey, That Doesn't Have To Be My Problem! It's shameful how long this took me to grasp. Honestly.
      Still, it would be nice if A Certain Someone I Live With would put things away (and where they belong) in a timely manner. Just saying.

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  8. Oh goodness, I hope the steroid injection helps! I knew cervical meant your cervical spine, as I had MRIs on mine a few years ago when I hurt my neck blow drying my hair. For me the solution was chiropractor/physical therapy/yoga. I suspect that the (gentle) yoga helped the most. Surgery sounds horrible and no one I know ever has anything good to say about back or neck surgery.

    Oh, your weekend with Theo made me SO HAPPY. We are going to spend a bit of time with little ones this weekend, at a party. A 3 year old and a 7 month old, and gosh they’re fun!

    Blogging…sometimes everything seems like a good idea, and sometimes it all seems like a lot of bother. Glad to see you here whenever you post, and love having your comments on so many blogs.

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    1. J--So far, so good with the injection. My neck is a big mess. I'll be the one to say a lot of good things about back surgery. Rick has had two, and they've been a godsend. He has hardware in there now, but his back feels a thousand times better. He can golf again, move with no pain, and is a new man thanks to those surgeries.

      I'm glad that your neck was able to be saved with non-invasive therapies. Mine simply has too much damage. I have stenosis, arthritis, degenerative disks, and a pinched and protruding nerve as well as some vertebrae damage. Those falls really did a number on it. Sigh.

      Enjoy your party time with the littles. Kids are the best. And dogs. They really are a great deal alike in their joy and enthusiasm. And complete disregard for what anyone thinks. That last part has got to be the reason for the previous, don't you think?

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  9. I have recently been having issues with a leg that I had operated on years ago and there was a suggestion of a cortisone shot and I turned it down. I guess we'll see if physical therapy can keep me from that option. There was also talk of a fusion of my ankle joint and I think you and I know that was immediately taken off the table! Anyway, I hope the injection makes things better and not just in a temporary way.

    Blogging is really hard to fit in when life gets in the way. But I do enjoy the community, which is why I always come back to it!

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