tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post2163349997007933676..comments2024-03-20T08:32:25.794-04:00Comments on Dept. of Nance: Way Back When Wednesday: Even As A Child, My Hair Drove Me CrazyNancehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comBlogger18125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-88768290805495813992017-11-23T17:47:23.548-05:002017-11-23T17:47:23.548-05:00Mary--Oh, how Victorian to have a framed hair keep...Mary--Oh, how Victorian to have a framed hair keepsake. ;-) I have a keepsake of Rick's long hair from when it was first all cut off. Back then it was light brown and streaked with blonde. <br /><br />I get you about Hat Hair. I would love to wear hats, but...Vanity. We have Winter here in NEO, too, as you well know. All my winter coats must have hoods.Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-17818793464359011252017-11-23T12:19:29.395-05:002017-11-23T12:19:29.395-05:00Oh yes. Lots. I too was braided. Until sometime ar...Oh yes. Lots. I too was braided. Until sometime around Grade 6 when I took my birthday money and went to my Dad's barber, whom we knew well, and persuaded him to cut them off for me. My mother framed one. I have had short hair ever since with one foray into growing it out that ended up with me having a bald spot on top from the pins for the French Twist I wore it in. <br />If I were male, I would have male pattern baldness. My hairdresser just sighs and cuts it off, then cuts more off when I complain she has left too much and I will have hat hair. Toques you see. Canada. Winter.MARY Ghttps://www.blogger.com/profile/13178370815712313585noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-77509553886413713472017-11-17T20:15:43.858-05:002017-11-17T20:15:43.858-05:00Rose--Another Home Perm Survivor!Rose--Another Home Perm Survivor!Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-64516991012563811852017-11-17T19:51:40.827-05:002017-11-17T19:51:40.827-05:00Nope I was the victim of home perms and then the S...Nope I was the victim of home perms and then the Sassoon cut, which made me look like a boy. Bad looks, bothAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00312958345507812508noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-12892847145413870172017-11-17T10:37:13.997-05:002017-11-17T10:37:13.997-05:00Jezebel - snicker :) I actually wrote a paper in s...Jezebel - snicker :) I actually wrote a paper in seminary comparing myself to Jezebel. Fun times!The Bughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07509037206264761261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-31088830012356202572017-11-17T08:28:31.528-05:002017-11-17T08:28:31.528-05:00Bug--Poor 4H Camper You, trying to figure out show...Bug--Poor 4H Camper You, trying to figure out showers in a camp shower. It probably wasn't the best shower to begin with.<br /><br />I guess I never thought about hair colour having a bad smell. That would be your punishment as a Jezebel for using it, I guess. But then, makeup should smell bad, and it really doesn't. Thank goodness mascara smells just fine, or I'd be in Big Trouble.Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-37539826629344990232017-11-16T20:55:08.068-05:002017-11-16T20:55:08.068-05:00My mom didn’t really know how to “do” hair, so min...My mom didn’t really know how to “do” hair, so mine was usually just a simple short-ish cut. We had a shower, but my mom didn’t like showers, so we always took baths. I remember washing my hair in the bath. <br /><br />(Funny shower side note: When I was in 4th grade I went to 4-H camp. I had never had a shower before & couldn’t figure out how to do it without getting water in my eyes. Therefore, I didn’t try again. Spent a week at camp & had one shower. Pee-ew!)<br /><br />I had lots of perms too - and body waves. Not sad to see those days behind me now. The hair color smell is bad enough. The Bughttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07509037206264761261noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-42457498692754148282017-11-16T15:46:43.700-05:002017-11-16T15:46:43.700-05:00NCmountainwoman--Bless your poor heart. My mother...NCmountainwoman--Bless your poor heart. My mother never slapped me and either did my father. They did not believe in corporal punishment. Like you and them, I decided that was not the best way for me to parent, either. <br /><br />Once and a while, Mom would tie up our hair in rags overnight so that we could have wavy and curly hair. I loved that look, but it was seldom worth sleeping on those lumps and bumps. And there you were, ironing your hair and trying to sleep on huge rollers for the opposite effect. Goodness!<br /><br />Oh, how did we all survive our shared feminine histories? Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-37215830357881895022017-11-16T15:35:01.265-05:002017-11-16T15:35:01.265-05:00Gina--My hair was so long and my sister and I ofte...Gina--My hair was so long and my sister and I often bathed together. I'm sure the water got pretty awful, and my hair took a while to wash. It was waist length and incredibly thick. And with four kids using the tub, time was an issue too. I'm sure there were times that washing it in the tub may have been done, but getting all the soap out with soapy bath water would have been a problem, and washing my hair first would have been an ordeal because of my behaviour. I really could not stand the water in my face and the whole thing. And can you imagine my mother doing all of that as she's bending over or sitting at the side of the tub? <br /><br />Short hair for you was a practical solution for all the reasons you name. Being athletic was never my thing, and I was also very chubby, so short hair was not a good style for me. I had it once as a child, then never again.<br /><br />I still like washing my hair at the sink rather than having all that water all over my face in the shower, to this day. Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-38073107360760511252017-11-16T15:26:43.105-05:002017-11-16T15:26:43.105-05:00Mikey--I still cut off pieces of my hair that don&...Mikey--I still cut off pieces of my hair that don't behave. It irritates whomever my stylist is at the time, and me when later, that part of my hair is in a different place and really looks terrible. I never do learn, however.<br /><br />Oh, Alfalfa. I know that The Little Rascals and Our Gang were terribly backward and racist, but there were parts of it that were charming.Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-81903554304807456142017-11-16T14:52:39.812-05:002017-11-16T14:52:39.812-05:00I've always hated having thick, curly hair. I ...I've always hated having thick, curly hair. I never suffered as much as you did with your braids, but I always wished it was just straight and easy to deal with. Brushing or combing never helps unless it's right after a shower.<br /><br />I've definitely had <a href="http://3.bp.blogspot.com/-mEW1JlJhYZw/UF82DTSjRiI/AAAAAAAAHks/CsIZXh6DLkY/s1600/Alfalfa+Pionting+Hair+Son.jpg" rel="nofollow">Alfalfa</a> moments, when the easiest solution was to just cut off the offending strands.Mikey G.https://www.blogger.com/profile/00897636566850280566noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-76853685084530681742017-11-16T12:31:19.239-05:002017-11-16T12:31:19.239-05:00Growing up I had a lot of thin, fine blond hair. ...Growing up I had a lot of thin, fine blond hair. But it never looked "full" or bouncy. I mostly had short hair, although there was a short period of time where I long hair up until maybe 2nd grade, and then my parents chopped it off again. I would go on to have short hair until my junior year in high school. <br /><br />It sort of made sense, I was athletic, both my parents worked and had little time to help me with my hair. And we too had only one bathroom for four people. <br /><br />Was there not a way that you could have used a pitcher or something to wash your hair in the tub? Having to stand at the sink sounds harder than doing it in the tub, but what do I know? I don't remember having a shower, only a bathtub, but we must have always done our hair in the tub because I have never washed my hair in a sink and was shocked when I saw my husband's sister doing it when I first started dating him.<br /><br />Ginahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11604097511444010759noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-66841213460783242402017-11-16T10:26:15.371-05:002017-11-16T10:26:15.371-05:00I had very curly hair and like you, no conditioner...I had very curly hair and like you, no conditioner. I recall painful days of standing in front of my mother (facing her) while she held my chin tightly in her left hand and brushed my hair with her right hand. Obviously, there was no hand free to hold the hair and prevent painful pulling as she brushed through the tangled curls. She was not above moving her hand from my chin to slap my face if I wasn't still. I vowed I would NEVER slap my children and I never did. After years of rolling my hair on orange juice cans and/or ironing it, I learned that short hair does not curl as much. What a wonderful thing.<br /><br />As for wishing for straight hair, YES! I so admired the shiny sleek heads of hair on the straight-haired girls and wished to trade my fuzzy head for that kind of hair.NCmountainwomanhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00615765649828716560noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-45804921170822861882017-11-16T08:46:05.975-05:002017-11-16T08:46:05.975-05:00J@jj--Conditioner? Never heard of it back then. L...J@jj--Conditioner? Never heard of it back then. LOL. It would have made a lot of things easier, as you said.<br /><br />And, of course, no blow dryers back then either. We had one old portable hair dryer with a shower cap-type attachment and hose which barely blew any air. It was worthless for all my hair. <br /><br />Not having a shower was Just One Of Those Things, like you trekking to a college to take yours. We had one bathroom for 6 family members, and it had a tub. Period. That was our life. The logistics of that bathroom was probably a far bigger deal for my mother than its impact on me.<br /><br />I'm trying hard now to think if I ever had Long, Beautiful Wash-N-Go Hair in my youth. Likely I could have, but persisted in using all sorts of doodads being successfully hawked at me instead, like electric rollers, hair gels, curling irons, and hairsprays. Now I miss the ridiculously thick hair of those days, which I did not appreciate nearly enough. Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-76046769490912805592017-11-16T08:32:27.688-05:002017-11-16T08:32:27.688-05:00Bridget--And that smell! It's been a long, lo...Bridget--And that smell! It's been a long, long time since I've had a perm, but I don't think any manufacturer has done anything about that smell.<br /><br />I wonder if all curly-haired people want straight hair and all straight-haired people long for curly hair. I often wish for a head full of long ringlets so that I don't have to think about my hairstyle so much. I'm sure that's naive.Nancehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17627214346956206283noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-36922710750260701902017-11-16T08:02:07.297-05:002017-11-16T08:02:07.297-05:00My mother and my sisters had thick, dark, naturall...My mother and my sisters had thick, dark, naturally wavy hair. I had blonde, thin, wispy hair. I spent so many years living through the torture and the results of home permanents! They never looked good (mostly I looked like a poodle for a few days) and they didn't last (my hair would be straight again in a week). It used to drive my mother nuts, and by extension, she drove me nuts. :-)Bridgethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/01641404632001445083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-2242615766547746392017-11-15T22:26:50.824-05:002017-11-15T22:26:50.824-05:00When we lived out at the homestead, we didn't ...When we lived out at the homestead, we didn't have running water, so we took our shower at the local college. Happy to have a shower. The next couple of houses after that, I honestly can't remember if we had showers or not. Weird, huh? I think I would remember if I had been tortured. I'm guessing I just washed them in the bathtub, with all of the tub filth. Blech.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00653383372182667361noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-15179498.post-36748008662209199422017-11-15T22:23:08.496-05:002017-11-15T22:23:08.496-05:00OH my god, that story is horrific. I can't be...OH my god, that story is horrific. I can't believe you had to wash your hair in the sink that way! Horrific. I'm so sorry. I wish you had had a shower.<br /><br />I was not allowed to grow my hair long. It was a bob until I got to be maybe 9 or 10. I longed so much for long hair, but perhaps my mom had talked to your mom, and thus thought it was too darned much. Once I was allowed to grow my hair out, it bit me, and I grew mouse nests in the back of my head. My mom had thick, course hair, and didn't see the need for conditioner. A little conditioner or 'no more tears' made all the difference to me and my fine hair. I had a LOT of hair, but it was all very fine. Sigh.<br /><br />Once I learned to take care of it and grew it out, it got long and stringy, with no blow drying until maybe 9th grade. That was a whole new level of good hair, the hair dryer. Why do some people get to just wash and go, and have beautiful hair? Unfair.Jhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00653383372182667361noreply@blogger.com